<<Christ's assertion "Many are called, but few are chosen" I would trans-late to mean "All of us are called by and to grace, but few of us choose to listen to the call.">>
"Love is not simply giving; it is judicious giving and judicious withholding as well. It is judicious praising and judicious criticizing. It is judicious arguing, struggling, con-fronting, urging, pushing and pulling in addition to comforting. It is leadership. The word "judicious" means requiring judgment, and judgment requires more than instinct; it requires thoughtful and often painful decision-making." (By M. Scott Peck The Road Less Traveled)